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I know there were various things contributing to my negative experience with these things, but the common denominator has always been a fundamental misalignment in our understandings of what our relationship to each other and to the rest of the world should look like in the first place.

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No one owns me. These are my truths, but past suitors and prospects have always disagreed. A lot of us need a social intervention to re-evaluate what we think romance is and what dating and relationships should look like. A lot of us need to interrogate the behaviors, expectations, and permissions that have become normalized, especially those which are gendered, and even racialized.

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I know all too well the heteropatriarchal social expectations for someone who looks like me. Therapy, triage, rehab. A covering, a coat, a rib.

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A receptacle to dump their shit into. Because we normalize only certain forms of affection, intimacy, and emotional support.

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Tell us our standards are unfair, unrealistic, impossible. Just like I know larger social pressures to be partnered are a lie. Our society constructs romantic relationships as inherently superior, more necessary, more valuable than non-romantic ones, and I know this is a lie.

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